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Breaking free from family patterns - Tip #7


Do you feel that you should? Let go of that need, my dear.

When people say "never change", they don't want the role you fulfil in their lives to change because you meet a need they have (aka "I need you to be there for me so if you change you will not meet my needs anymore"), they don't want their beliefs about you/their vie of you to be challenged... and to go deeper, they're also afraid that they'd have to change too...

Change is nothing to be scared about, as uncomfortable as it can be and don't hold yourself back from chaging/growing to please anyone.

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