One way to know if a healer is legit - story time

For those who know me and have had sessions with me, you know I always encourage you to write things down in order to let it out of your system (ex: write a letter to the person you can't actually physically talk to without sending it, just for the sake of unburdening yourself without blaming anyone or yourself...)


I have been doing that and I still do that myself when I feel the need to get clarity. On Friday night, I felt guided to write a letter to my former best friend who died a few years ago. I had been feeling her spirit around for a few days. I thought it was because it was her birthday month so I didn't really pay attention and I have been pushing her away...


Why? Because when she was still alive, she lied to me, and she was the best friend I had ever had, the 1st person to never judge me, she was my soul sister and catalyst for my spiritual awakening...


However, she had a choice: to be honest or to lie, she chose the latter, and it's ok. She passed away, I wish her the best on her soul journey... but when her spirit comes to me, I just tell her "You had the choice and you chose to lie, now I am choosing to set boundaries, leave me alone, you are not allowed in my space".


I don't have any anger or resentment, I am at peace with it, I don't really have any emotional response. It did make me suffer a lot, I will never deny that, losing her friendship was very painful to me, however now, I'm ok and my answer to her spirit is a conscious choice without me being triggered - a kind of "you-can-eat-but-not-at-my-table" boundary, if that makes sense.


But she/her spirit has kept coming back... so I thought I'd address the topic in a way or another...


I realized I was still judging myself for having trusted her... So I thought it was time for me to reintegrate that part, to dig up what was hiding behind this at a subconscious level and that by pushing her away, I am also pushing a part of myself away (the famous mirror effect, you know..).


So last Friday night, I wrote her a letter and didn't gain much clarity from it consciously.

I remember feeling weird during the night and energies coming up to the surface but nothing I could pinpoint...


Yesterday afternoon, I burnt my hand with super hot water, it really hurt but went away super fast. Then my friend was in pain, I offered to help her and she felt immediate relief... and a few other synchronicities happened...


Last night, I had an epiphany, it hit me in the face! It's about my healing abilities... But that will be for another day as I still need to process the piece of information...


Here my point is a good way to know if a healer/facilitator is legit is to see if they also walk the talk (and not only talk the talk).


That is why I shared this story, to show you that when I give a piece of advice, it's because I do it myself and I know it can help. Facilitators are way-showers, how could I show you the way if I haven't walked there yet?


I hope you found this post comforting, never hesitate to ask questions, a true facilitator will not get upset for you asking questions about their values and services and the ones who will be upset will only be showing you that they are not the one you need to work with. And it's ok :)


With that being said, feel free to drop me a hello, let's connect on Instagram!

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