The past is past... or not?

Here is a common statement I have heard a lot,

"The past is past, you need to leave it where it is and move forward"

I don't fully agree with that statement...

Yes, it is true, the past is past and you can't change it... however, you can change your perception of it.

As a child, I was bullied in the school bus on the way to junior high school, it was a nightmare, I was humiliated almost every day for several years, I was called names, the children from my village would target me and call me names, make fun of me as if I wasn’t there… I heard it all.

With time, if I happened to think back on these moments, I would feel horrible: ashamed, I would sweat, sometimes cry, feel how unfair it was, my heart would beat faster and I had a ball in my stomach… And later, a similar situation repeated, and another… I really wondered what was wrong with me and I realized I could break the pattern, I actually followed my guidance that day without even realizing it - my Higher Self took over and showed me I was not going to let them happen to me anymore.

I then worked on myself, I couldn’t change what happened but I could change the story I would tell myself in my head, I realized there was nothing wrong with me and after doing both conscious/mindset work and energy work, I could deactivate the emotional, mental and physical response to this trauma.

Now, when I think about it, even as I am typing this, I feel no emotion, no reaction. It’s just another episode of my life that has taught me a lot about myself and about human nature.

So that is why today I am here to tell you - I repeat loud and clear - you can change your perception of a trauma and you can deactivate the emotional charge associated to painful events by healing your wounds and traumas.

Do you agree? Let me know your opinion and experiences!

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