Only the now exists in this conscious reality.
The past only exists in our memory, we can decide if we let it rule our now or if we learn from it and grow.
The future is created in the now and nothing is set in stone
Sometimes, we keep the past in the present because there are parts of ourselves that are still "stuck" there because of trauma and loss of personal power. In some cases, it caused what some call soul loss and what I prefer calling soul fragmentation ("loss" seems more pessimistic, nothing is ever lost!) so it's a matter of bringing awareness of the past in the now, observing it through a new perspective: the lens of love and shifting the energy.
Conscious work and a soul retrieval can definitely help!
Let me know if you need guidance and let's work together :)